Checklist for Mr Right
Dear Natalie,
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now, and I want to make sure he is my Mr Right. What are the signs I should look for in order to avoid Mr Wrong and get that 1 step closer to finding my Mr Right?
Look forward to hearing back,
Stephanie
Hi Stephanie,
Aside from following your instinct-as a woman’s instinct is always right…
Try out this quick checklist (below) of signs and find out if he is your Mr Right!
Natalie x
How to tell if he is Boyfriend Material? A Checklist of Signs:
Passionate
Does he have goals and dreams for his future? Is he committed to pursuing them?
Healthy
Does he take good care of himself (eat well, go to thegym, etc.)? Does he have any bad habits that are deal-breakers (Drug or alcohol abuse, smoking)?
Balanced Emotionally
Does he seem stable? (Beware of men with excessive ‘emotional baggage,’ or men withrage issues or out-of-control mood swings.)
Treats You Well
Does he treat you with respect and consideration? Howdo you feel when you’re around him - happy, relaxed,safe? If he makes you feel uneasy, insecure, controlled,or threatened, he is definitely not boyfriend material.
Treats Others Well
Is he friendly with his doorman? Is he kind towaitresses and generous with tips? If he’s pleasantwith other people it’s a good sign that he’s not justputting on an act for you.
Healthy Relationship History
What is his dating history like? Is he a serialmonogamist or the king of one-night stands? If hehasn’t dated much (or at all), that could also be a redflag. If you know other women he’s dated in the past,do they have good things to say about him?
Good Relationship With His Family
Is he close with his family? Does he treat his parentswith respect? Is he friendly with his siblings? These are all good signs of a quality man. However….Bewareof the Mama’s Boy! A man who hasn’t “cut the cord” withhis mother is nothing but trouble - either he’ll expectyou to wait on him and make his bed OR you’ll spend yourlife trying to live up to the perfect image of his mum.Either way, it’s not good - so get out now and saveyourself for a man who will make you the #1 woman inhis life!
Mature
Does he follow through on his responsibilities? If heblows off a commitment to stay home and play Xbox, he may not be ready to meet the obligations of an adult relationship.
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now, and I want to make sure he is my Mr Right. What are the signs I should look for in order to avoid Mr Wrong and get that 1 step closer to finding my Mr Right?
Look forward to hearing back,
Stephanie
Hi Stephanie,
Aside from following your instinct-as a woman’s instinct is always right…
Try out this quick checklist (below) of signs and find out if he is your Mr Right!
Natalie x
How to tell if he is Boyfriend Material? A Checklist of Signs:
Passionate
Does he have goals and dreams for his future? Is he committed to pursuing them?
Healthy
Does he take good care of himself (eat well, go to thegym, etc.)? Does he have any bad habits that are deal-breakers (Drug or alcohol abuse, smoking)?
Balanced Emotionally
Does he seem stable? (Beware of men with excessive ‘emotional baggage,’ or men withrage issues or out-of-control mood swings.)
Treats You Well
Does he treat you with respect and consideration? Howdo you feel when you’re around him - happy, relaxed,safe? If he makes you feel uneasy, insecure, controlled,or threatened, he is definitely not boyfriend material.
Treats Others Well
Is he friendly with his doorman? Is he kind towaitresses and generous with tips? If he’s pleasantwith other people it’s a good sign that he’s not justputting on an act for you.
Healthy Relationship History
What is his dating history like? Is he a serialmonogamist or the king of one-night stands? If hehasn’t dated much (or at all), that could also be a redflag. If you know other women he’s dated in the past,do they have good things to say about him?
Good Relationship With His Family
Is he close with his family? Does he treat his parentswith respect? Is he friendly with his siblings? These are all good signs of a quality man. However….Bewareof the Mama’s Boy! A man who hasn’t “cut the cord” withhis mother is nothing but trouble - either he’ll expectyou to wait on him and make his bed OR you’ll spend yourlife trying to live up to the perfect image of his mum.Either way, it’s not good - so get out now and saveyourself for a man who will make you the #1 woman inhis life!
Mature
Does he follow through on his responsibilities? If heblows off a commitment to stay home and play Xbox, he may not be ready to meet the obligations of an adult relationship.
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