Ex Girlfriend
Dear Natalie
Just wondering whether you can help me with something….
My boyfriend keeps speaking to his ex girlfriend and I’m worried he’s still in love with her and will want to get back together with her.
Please tell me what should I do?
Desperately waiting to hear back,
Sarah
Dear Sara,
It’s always very complicated when it involves an ex, so I’m going to be straight with you.
I certainly don’t think it’s appropriate for your boyfriend to be speaking with his ex girlfriend, but I don’t know the story behind it.
We can never control anyone else’s actions but our own, so the best thing you can do for yourself is let your boyfriend know that it bothers you when he speaks to his ex, and that you would prefer it if he didn’t.
Remind him that you DO TRUST HIM and that you are not trying to control his life, but you don’t like sharing him with another woman and that there’s no space for a third party in your relationship. Let him know that him speaking to his ex is only causing you a lot of grief and introducing a lot of unwanted trouble into the relationship.
If he ignores your requests and still continues to speak to his ex, I advise you to leave him, as he’s not treating you the way you should be treated. He’s not making you feel secure and loved in this relationship and therefore he’s not looking out for your best interests. If he’s not looking out for your best interests, he doesn’t love you. And why would you want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t love you?
I hope my advice will help you make the right decision, and one that’s best for you.
Natalie x
Just wondering whether you can help me with something….
My boyfriend keeps speaking to his ex girlfriend and I’m worried he’s still in love with her and will want to get back together with her.
Please tell me what should I do?
Desperately waiting to hear back,
Sarah
Dear Sara,
It’s always very complicated when it involves an ex, so I’m going to be straight with you.
I certainly don’t think it’s appropriate for your boyfriend to be speaking with his ex girlfriend, but I don’t know the story behind it.
We can never control anyone else’s actions but our own, so the best thing you can do for yourself is let your boyfriend know that it bothers you when he speaks to his ex, and that you would prefer it if he didn’t.
Remind him that you DO TRUST HIM and that you are not trying to control his life, but you don’t like sharing him with another woman and that there’s no space for a third party in your relationship. Let him know that him speaking to his ex is only causing you a lot of grief and introducing a lot of unwanted trouble into the relationship.
If he ignores your requests and still continues to speak to his ex, I advise you to leave him, as he’s not treating you the way you should be treated. He’s not making you feel secure and loved in this relationship and therefore he’s not looking out for your best interests. If he’s not looking out for your best interests, he doesn’t love you. And why would you want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t love you?
I hope my advice will help you make the right decision, and one that’s best for you.
Natalie x
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