He's getting Married!

Dear Natalie,

I’ve recently broken up with my boyfriend who I had been seeing for 4 years.
I thought we were going to get married, but everything turned upside down for me when I found out he was engaged to be married to another woman, and he never even told me!

I feel that I don’t have the energy to start my life all over again. How do I get over him and also be able to enjoy myself again and meet ‘My Mr Right’?

Please help me.

Diane

Dear Diane,

I want to firstly start by congratulating you!
It’s definitely not easy breaking up with someone that you loved and had been dating for 4 years. However, you should look at this as a positive opportunity to be given a second chance in life, and have the opportunity to start all over again. You now have a clean slate to work with. So get back into the dating world and don’t look back.
Keep yourself busy by going out with your girlfriends and accepting all invitations to parties. Take up new hobbies and just living life in general.

You must never rely on a boyfriend to make you feel whole. In reality no one can complete you and make you feel happy and fulfilled as a person, but YOU!
I am certain that you are a beautiful and smart woman with so much to offer one lucky man who is clever enough to realize your good qualities, and have you in his life.

When you start feeling down or start thinking about your ex, quickly stop yourself.
Star going for walks and catching up with friends for coffee, as well as organizing dinner parties and lunches with groups of people. Keeping yourself busy with different activities is always good for a healthy mind and soul.
Men are especially attracted to happy and carefree women, so make sure every time you go out to a restaurant and bar you always smile and anyone who takes your fancy.
You’ll be surprised how quickly the men will run to you, when you show happiness and confidence in yourself.

I hope this helps,

Natalie